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Weh Side chick a go???..The Wife must come first.  When a man takes a wife she should be his priority as he start a family and new generation.  The mother is extremely important but should understand the role of the wife in her son's life.

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Most definitely wife. 

As @lilmisskim said, mothers are important but when you are married, your wife becomes your immediate family which becomes your priority. 

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Guest Nae

Wife definitely comes first. 
 

1. “For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.”
‭‭Genesis‬ ‭2:24‬ ‭AMP‬‬
 

2. “Husbands, love your wives [seek the highest good for her and surround her with a caring, unselfish love], just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her,”
‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭5:25‬ ‭AMP‬‬

3. I’m sure in the marriage vows there’s something about “forsaking all others” 

In conclusion, the wife is always first :) x

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Guest Kadz

The Wife should come first. The respect for the mother should still remain however The wife should be his number one priority.

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Guest Tootsieroll

Side Chick dwl.

Always the wife, it is Holy Matrimony.

If a man has a good relationship with his Mother, he will treat his wife good.

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Guest Ash

Wife comes first. 
 

A husband and wife’s job is to run the household and raise the children as a team by fulfilling their respective roles together.

Taking care of your parents is always a high priority for any man/women but this priority does not take precedent over priorities that pertain to the marital home and very immediate family.

As for baby mother/side chick. .

 

1.) If the baby mother is in addition to the wife, firstly, where is her husband? Secondly, her priority isn’t even a question as long as the child’s taken care of. Likkle card on Mother’s Day will do.

2.) Side chick? What is that?

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Guest Ash
1 minute ago, Patrick88 said:

Ma Daughter still ah win! 🤙🏾💯👌🏾

Even when you’re married?

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Guest Katt

The answer will vary based the the man's morals. A cheater will say his daughter, a deatbeat man will say his mother, a man who's feeling unloved or unwanted at home will say side chick and a man who is serious about building a family will say his baby mother. 

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6 minutes ago, Guest Katt said:

The answer will vary based the the man's morals. A cheater will say his daughter, a deatbeat man will say his mother, a man who's feeling unloved or unwanted at home will say side chick and a man who is serious about building a family will say his baby mother. 

True...but what about the Wife?

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22 minutes ago, Guest Ash said:

Even when you’re married?

In regards to my kids, my love for them can’t change and its unconditional, whereas I could  divorce my wife or fall out of love with her. But I can’t stop loving my kids

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Guest Claudia

The child because when all else fails the child's best interest should be considered. Making sure as much of that childs innocence is preserved make for a functional adult. 

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4 minutes ago, Guest Claudia said:

The child because when all else fails the child's best interest should be considered. Making sure as much of that childs innocence is preserved make for a functional adult. 

But even if all doesn't fail, the child best interest should still be a priority. However, what about when that child grows up and leave home? 

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Guest Lydz

Your mother! You only have one

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19 minutes ago, Deano said:

But even if all doesn't fail, the child best interest should still be a priority. However, what about when that child grows up and leave home? 

 

20 minutes ago, Deano said:

But even if all doesn't fail, the child best interest should still be a priority. However, what about when that child grows up and leave home? 

 

30 minutes ago, Guest Claudia said:

The child because when all else fails the child's best interest should be considered. Making sure as much of that childs innocence is preserved make for a functional adult. 

The child will be happy when both parents are able to co-exist in a loving relationship. Even if the parent still cares for the child after separation, the separation itself will have an impact on the child..that said the importance of the wife in a man's life should take priority.

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Guest Banks
5 hours ago, Patrick88 said:

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The child. Everyone else can fend for them self. 

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Guest Guest Gail 🙃

Marriage means that the wife comes first. In order to be an effective father or son. He needs to be happy and fulfilled. Second priority are kids ....then mommy and last but bit least baby mama. The sidechick should not be in the picture in the first place.

 

But the man has an obligation to pick a good wife who would be empathetic to all the important ppl in his life. And mommy must respect that her son is now married and has a family of his own.  The responsibility is on the man to manage these relationships and set realistic expectations.

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